Monday, 23 January 2017

ACTUALIZE - Act To See where it Lies.

ACTUALIZE - Act to see where it lies.

Act on that which you've seen as possible.
Act to develop yourself more and more.
Act on those goals that you have set but are yet to be fulfilled.
Act as if today was your last day.
Act to make this life a better place for yourself and others.

It is nice to plan but it's equally essential to stick to the plans; because your actions are the paths that will lead you to where you're going.
You don't get to finish a journey by mere thinking about the journey alone but when you act on which medium to use in getting to your destination. 

Don't just dream but act to reflect what you've seen.

Lastly, I challenge you to please act on that dream of yours, no matter how impossible it may look or sound. 

Just act on it and see where it lies.

Thank you.

Written by:
Temitayo Oyediran,
Author of "Self Identification Management (SIM book)"
Coach, Consultant and Project manager.

CONCEPTUALIZE - Think of a Concept and See where it Lies.

CONCEPTUALIZE - Think of a concept and see where it lies.

Is your concept valuable?
Is your concept achievable?
Is your concept profitable?

These are vital questions toward what you're likely to see through the lenses of your 'conceptualised eyes'.

When you generate a concept in your mind, it is just a thought but it takes a little bit of effort to proceed further. 
Do the following three things about your thought (i.e. Concept) and you would have achieved a certain level of progress.

1.) Believe in the thought.
2.) Document the thought.
3.) Begin to work on the thought.

To me, every concept must go through these three stages before it becomes a reality. Many concepts die at the first stage while a lot more of the concepts do not make it through to the third stage of the concept development, as highlighted above.

To achieve anything, it must first be conceived in the mind and from that instance you have to ensure that you see where the concept lies; else you might just be working on a dead concept without any life in it.

So, today I challenge you with this...

If you can see where your concept lies, please believe in it, document it and start working on it.

Thank you.

Written by: 
Temitayo Oyediran,
Author of "Self Identification Management (SIM book)"
Coach, Consultant and Project manager.

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VISUALIZE - View To See Where it Lies!

VISUALISE - View To See Where it Lies.

What can you see in yourself? 
What can you see in this year 2017?
What can you see in that situation that you've going through?
Are you seeing possibility or difficulties?
Are you seeing positivity or negativity?
Are you seeing opportunities or threats?

Ask yourself these questions, because what you see today will determine where you'll lie tomorrow; if you'll end up lying in a place of rest or hardship...

Think Distinctively, think Differently and don't Diminish!!!

Written By: Temitayo Oyediran,
Author of Self Identification Management (SIM).
Consultant, Coach and Project Manager.

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Monday, 9 January 2017

Call to RESCUE!!!


We've all been hit with one storm or the other and we've sort of look at ourselves and say something like this; I wish I was well prepared for that... But you know what, you can never be over-prepared for difficulties but you can certainly be under-prepared when it hits.

Most of the times, we tend to think that we cannot fall or fail in our area of strength and this thinking make us prepare more for the things that we're not so good at (i.e. our weaknesses) while our area of strength suffers preparation.

These things happen more often and they're real, so they must be dealt with urgently. They can also cause blockage or roadblock for us along the way as we persistently climb up the ladder of success.

And if you may ask me, why is this message focusing mainly on the aspect of "storm"?
This is simply because some of us might be facing some storms right now and it may look as if we cannot come out of them or possibly, we may just need a little PUSH for us to come out of such situation.

My name is Temitayo Oyediran and I'm the new guy in your neighbourhood. As part of my contribution to your success, I'm willing to serve you by helping you out of this situation, quicker and better.

How am I sure that I can help you out of the stormy situation?
Because I've been there before and for this reason, I've completed the development of a programme (i.e. SIM Programme) that is specifically tailored to your situation and this will help you to unravel your distinctiveness and then work towards managing these distinctive features to achieve great success and fulfilment.

To benefit from this, all you have to do is pick up your phone and call us or reply to this email, stating your interest and one of the team members at SIMBook1 can get in touch with you...

I challenge you to continue believing in your UNIQUENESS, so that you can stay RELEVANT!!!

Meet the new guy in your neighbourhood!


According to research by a psychologist named Anna Freud, she discovered that in the process of identification, children unconsciously adopt the characteristics of their parents and begin to associate themselves with the behaviours of their parents. (i.e. Primary Identification)

If this is true, then it becomes essential for such a child to at least make an effort by encouraging himself/herself to figure out his/her true self; but this must be done consciously, as it requires a lot of commitment and dedication before the child can unravel his/her true self-identity.

Okay, let me not bore you with too much information on here but you can easily find out more on how to manage your self-identification from my newly published book titled "Self Identification Management (SIM)." Handbook on how to manage your self identity. Learn to know more, become more and give more.

Here is the link below, so go ahead and grab yourself a copy and also get for your friends, associates and loved ones that you care so much about their success and fulfilment.

https://www.amazon.co.uk/Self-Identification-Management-Temitayo-Oyediran/dp/1524637084/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1480160876&sr=8-1&keywords=temitayo+Oyediran

Lastly, I'll like to commend you for taking the bold step of wanting to discover those true potentials inside of you that are yet to be of great use to you nor your environment; as I've stated in the book that this book is not for everyone but those that are intentionally willing to unravel the distinctiveness in them.

Be Distinct, be Different and don't Diminish!!!

Timely Plan vs Yearly Plan.


Oh, what a privilege to be able to share this with you all and I'm really excited about it.
It's that time of the year again when goals will be set for the year 2017 and everyone is all getting ready to start doing something new and dropping some old habits behind.

I commend you for taking these bold steps and I hope they all pay off at the end.

However, there is something critical that I believe is missing from all of these preparations and that is what I want to address in this personal letter to you, as you're reading this.

Most people (and I mean a very high percentage of planners all over the world) tend to make plans on a yearly basis and we forget that there are 12 valuable months in that one year that require planning.

Let me quickly break it down so that you can understand the point that I'm trying to make here...

There are 12 months in a year, 4 weeks in a month, 7 days in a week, 24 hours in a day, 60 minutes in an hour and we also have 60 seconds in one minute.

My next question is, why then do we only focus on the biggest part of the equation and we neglect the tiniest piece of our lives?
But, let us not forget that those tiny pieces of our lives matter a lot in the achievement of our overall yearly plans; therefore we must consciously work out a plan for them too.

So, here is the challenge for you and I?

This year is going to be a great year for us but we need to have what I call "Second-ly Plan" (i.e. Plan for every second of the day).

I want to encourage you to create processes for you to achieve your "Second-ly plans", which will eventually add up to your overall yearly plan; while ensuring that you're able to measure your progress accordingly.

Journey through year 2017 with a Process-Driven Mindset, where all your plans must be achieved through determination, motivation and commitment. 

This challenge is personal and requires your commitment to develop in the areas that you want to grow, this year.

Written by:
Temitayo Oyediran,
Author of Self Identification Management (SIM).
Coach, Consultant and Project Manager.


Thursday, 5 January 2017

MERRY XMAS!!!

Merry Christmas to you...


Christmas has been known to be the season of gifting, so we can't afford not to share some gifts with our loved ones during this period.

Here is the challenge from me to you...

How do you know what to give as a Christmas gift?

Gifts come with their benefits when they meet the relevant need of the recipients and they also serve as inevitable ingredients in the process of a perfect love. Most essentially, love is a catalyst that can determine the quality of gift that must be given.

There's no way you can show love to someone without an involvement of gifting; and this can come in various forms such as spending time, sacrifice, giving flowers and hanging out together in preferred places... The truth is that all of these will definitely cost you something and it's a choice if you want to truly show love to others.

However, no one knows how to show love to others without first loving himself/herself. 

To enjoy this festive period, I encourage you to take time out to rest, spend quality time with loved ones and devote sometime to learning...

That is, learning how to manage your self identity. 

If you want to find out more, click the link "Buy Now" below...

This could be that perfect christmas gift that you will ever give to yourself and anyone that you care so much about. 


 
***Have a wonderful christmas!***

Friday, 4 November 2016

BOOK SALE! BOOK SALE!! BOOK SALE!!!


It's official, my book is out of Amazon.

Go get yourself a copy of my book titled "SELF IDENTIFICATION MANAGEMENT (SIM), Handbook on how to manage your Self Identity.
Learn to know more, become more and give more"; written by Temitayo Oyediran.

Self Identification Management (SIM) is not just an ordinary book or series of texts that you must read in order to prosper in life. It is a tool that you must plug or insert into your life...

Go to the link below to purchase your copy of the book.

https://www.amazon.co.uk/-/e/B01M72ET4W


Contact me if you have nay further question.

Thank you and God bless.


By the Author,

Temitayo Oyediran.

LISTENING SKILLS.

Keys to listening effectively.

Not a lot of people listen, only a few actually understand what you're saying and why you've said what you must have said.

Why is it so difficult for people to grasp what they hear or what they've been told? It's because people find it very easy to hear but they find it difficult to listen.

What do I mean by people hearing you but they are not listening to you?

It takes great energy to listen to someone trying to pass a message across to you or when having a serious discussion. This energy is what most people don't want to extract from themselves in order to give an absolutely fulfilling concentration to any conversation.

Because I have encountered this issue of people not listening to you when you speak; though they claim that because they can hear what you are saying, it automatically means that they are actually listening; whereas it's the other way round.

In my own opinion, I think listening is not just the act of opening your ears to hear something but the essence of opening your mind to receive something tangible from the conversation and trying to grasp the most important aspect of the conversation, even if you're unable to grasp everything therein.

I have identified few keys that can boost our listening skills and they are listed below:

1.) Attention
2.) Focus
3.) Understanding 
4.) Reproduction.

ATTENTION: It is absolutely useless to spend time talking about an issue with someone and that person is not giving attention to what you're saying, though they claim to be hearing you. It goes beyond just hearing but an extra effort must be applied in order to be attentive to what is been said. Only then will you be able to grasp the best out of that conversation or discussion. Attention does not only mean that you stare at the person having that conversation with you but it's a devoted effort of concentrating on the conversation and not just the speaker.

FOCUS: I can guarantee you that you can easily tell when people are focused on what you're saying to them or if they're just merely looking at you without any focus. It takes a concentrated mind to fully understand the deepest part of every conversation. The person that hears alone will only be scratching the surface while the one that focuses on listening very well has the advantage of gaining deeper knowledge of the discussion. To focus in a conversation is to extract the best of the conversation to the advantage of both the speaker and the receiver.

UNDERSTANDING: We tend to understand more when we make an effort to gain more knowledge about an issue of discussion. Because, we begin to research more or ask more questions about the issue, so that we can unravel hidden treasures. Understanding an issue is the ability to go to the foundation of that issue and dig out facts that help in resolving the issue. When we are full of understanding, we must have taken time and commitment to finding out facts from there; which means that we acquire more knowledge and awareness.

REPRODUCTION: It is a waste of knowledge and resources when you have gained a deeper understanding of a topic and you are unable to reproduce what you've learnt or what you now know about the subject. If you gave yourself to proper listening and grasping of facts about the subject, it will be easier for you to reproduce such learning and transfer it into other people by delivering it into their lives; so that they can also reproduce it into the lives of others. This ensures that what you've learnt stay in you for a longer time and will also enhance your understanding of the subject, as a result of further research that you'll do so as to be sure of your understanding of the subject. Reproduction is the end-result of listening effectively, in that you can't claim to understand a topic or discussion if you can't reproduce the vital portion of what has been discussed.

As we go about our daily activities, let us endeavour that what we hear goes beyond our hearings alone but we're sure to be listening to what has been discussed, so as to grasp the best part of the conversation.

Saturday, 31 May 2014

GROWing, not Ageing


It's a new day and I would like to leave you with these words.
Ageing is mandatory but growing is optional. 

When a man decides to GROW, he sets a Goal that is Realistic enough, with the Objective of not Withdrawing from his set of actions.

If we are to develop or improve in what we used to do or we want to be better in doing them, we need to set Goals that are Realistic and they must have the Objectives that will make us not to Withdraw from doing them.
Keep GROWing...

Temitayo Oyediran
(Director, Teesoft Limited)
@teesoftCL

(Teesoft Limited is a consulting and coaching company with expertise in project management, service management, business analysis and personal/corporate coaching.)

ATTITUDE MANAGEMENT.


In the face of difficulty or challenges that are beyond your expectation, attitude management plays a vital role in making sure that you engage a positive attitude, which invariably place you ahead of the circumstances and create an atmosphere where you're optimistic of a successful outcome.

In the words of Dennis Waitley, he said in a quote: "The winner's edge is not in a gifted birth, a high IQ, or in talent. The winner's edge is all in the attitude, not aptitude. Attitude is the criterion for success."

Your attitude not only create an expression on your face but goes deep down inside your mind to steer up the energy to forge ahead in executing that idea or dealing with that situation.

In other words, attitude is an internal force that produces a positive or negative outward expression...

Stay positive, stay motivated and manage your attitude positively.

Temitayo Oyediran.
(Director, Teesoft Limited)
@teesoftCL

Teesoft Limited is a consulting and coaching company with expertise in project management, service management, business analysis and personal/corporate coaching.

Wednesday, 21 May 2014

COMPETITIVE ANALYSIS.




When we talk of competition, the first thing that comes to mind is when two or more people are competing against each other but I will like to expose us to the fact that competition can also be within one person and that is the essence of this article.

But before I go any further, I will like to ask this question.

What is competition?

"The dictionary obviously describes Competition as an act that involves two or more objects, in order to gain a profit or get a reward for being outstanding."

In as much as I would like to agree with this definition above, I want to add that competition can also be practiced by one person alone and let me briefly explain:


I describe competition as a way whereby you set a goal and strive to achieve it, but this can be done by one person or among many people at the same time. If you set a goal to be better than you were yesterday, you have no choice than to compete with yourself or these factors such as laziness, food, friends, discouraging words and other limiting factors will set in and they would want to prevent you from achieving that goal. When your mind is set to achieve a goal, you should place yourself around those that can help you to achieve it; even though the competition is still for you and for yourself alone.

In most cases, people tend to think of competition as a way whereby you stay ahead of other people or where you are competing with others to win a race but in the actual sense, competition goes beyond that and it should be an inward decision for a person/business to be competitive with its previous successes.






Let me explain a little further...


For instance, an athlete is competing with other athletes and they are all preparing for the same rac
e. I believe that, most of the times, it is the athlete that either practises more and prepares very well that ends up winning the race while others come behind. But what if they all decide not to practise at all because they feel that others wouldn’t practise as well or they are just mere lazy to stretch further in winning the race? Then it becomes obvious that the level of the competition is now determinant on the level of the preparation of all the competitors or athletes in the illustration above; but if you’re simply competing with yourself and not another person, then it becomes irrelevant whether someone else (i.e. your competitor/athlete) is practicing or not.

It is therefore imperative that we all look inwardly and try to only compete with our previous successes and achievements rather than looking elsewhere for competitors or who to compete with. In whatever you do, you must have achieved something before and your focus should be on how to do things bigger and better on a daily basis and by the end of the year, you would look back and realize that you’ve actually been stretching yourself to become better. Your previous achievement should not be your finishing line but rather, it should be your starting point for greater things and that is where your own personal competition starts from.  In your Goals process, make your first great achievement to be your guideline to other future achievements and ensure that you don’t go below that ACHIEVEMENT STANDARD that you’ve set for yourself. It will also benefit you to develop a KPI (i.e. Metric) that helps you to understand when you’re falling out of your ‘Achievement Standard’.


In the process of analysing your competition, it must be based on your ‘Achievement Standard’ and if the achievement ascribe to any competition is below your standard, then it is not the best option for you and should not be given any priority.

Competitive analysis can also be described as a review and analysis of all our competitions (both inward and outward), whether they are past, present or future competitions.


There are two types of Competition.
  1. Inward competition: (i.e. Competition with self and within.)
  2. Outward competition: (i.e. Competition with others and without.)
There‘s always a motive behind every competition and the reason must be genuine enough for you to embark on the journey of competing with yourself or other people.


We must ensure that our past achievements in all previous competitions do not surpass our present achievement, while the present achievement doesn’t surpass the future ones... This is what I called, GROWING UP STEADILY (GUS).


And I can also connect this article on Competitive analysis to one of Abraham Lincoln’s numerous quotes: “I don’t think much of a man who is not wiser today than he was yesterday.


In conclusion, I want to believe that many people will now agree with me that they should focus more on their own personal competition and think less upon competing with other people or businesses. (i.e. Your competition should be dependent on your past achievements.)


Analyze your competition wisely and you would not be competing wrongly.

By Temitayo Oyediran,
Director, Teesoft Limited.

(Teesoft Limited is a consulting and coaching company with expertise in project management, service management, business analysis and personal/corporate coaching.)

Friday, 14 March 2014

EXECUTOR’S DNA.


We’ve briefly looked at what it takes to have the Innovator’s DNA in one of our previous articles but now we have to deal with the fact that innovators can only be responsible for the beginning stage of any innovation process and along the line, we would need to execute any innovative idea that has been generated and this is where we need Executors.

Executors are not just good at reviewing ideas for innovation but they actually follow the idea through to implementation. They are not just observers of innovative idea but executors of those great ideas. When we talk of Executors, these are the ones that make a non-realistic idea to become realistic. These are the ones who might not understand the source of the idea but are willing to go extra-mile to bring something of substance, out of that idea. They might not be so good at coming up with innovative ideas but they are good at bringing the virtual substance (innovative idea) to become a real product or enhanced services.

We cannot be talking of innovators without considering that some people are actually responsible for implementing those ideas to get through to completion stage. In the process of completing the cycle of innovation, we will identify skill sets for an Executor to successfully bring an innovative idea to completion.

Hal Gregersen and Jeff Dyer described it in a very simple way that I found so interesting. They concluded that Executors possess some skills that set them apart and here are some of those skills that can foster the completion of an innovation process in any organization:
1.   Analyzing
2.   Planning
3.   Detail-oriented
4.   Self-discipline

ANALYSIS:
 Executors need to analyze their findings or the result from the researches, carried out on any subject before drawing out a conclusion that the idea is viable, reliable and executable. Innovation analysis can be done in such ways, so as to encourage the findings with the aim of the innovation. The team responsible for innovating need to collate data, logic, realism and generate facts from the figure accumulated, in other to make decision as a result of their findings. At this point is when you consider the requirement standard of the sponsor with that of the end-users, if the product is flexible enough for use or if it would not affect the present delivery of service. An innovative idea is presently not real (i.e. virtual substance). But how do we take this idea to become a product or improved service, without understanding the available resources and steps to take, in order to deliver a great end-product to users.

PLANNING:
In the process of executing a project and carry out a task, it is expected to plan the steps to be taken, in other to reach the finish line. If the execution process is not planned properly, if will lead to an innovative idea being executed improperly and it automatically eludes the idea of being great. That is the importance of adhering to rigorous steps in the execution stage and executors are responsible for that, hence they need to possess the planning skill.

DETAIL-ORIENTED:
Every detail of a proposed innovation must be specific and detailed enough for any member of the project team or stakeholder, to read and understand the progress of the project.
In the process of following an execution plan for an innovation, there could be some changes that will have to be thoroughly managed and communicated to other members of the project team, so that they are all aware of the situation and can act accordingly, if there’s need for that.
In other words, communication is an essential element to every innovation and this can only be achieved by being detailed in all our communications and request for changes to project/product execution plan.

SELF-DISCIPLINE:
Anyone can come up with an innovative idea but not everyone is capable, courageous and skilful enough to execute an innovative idea. It is therefore paramount that an Executor possesses the attribute of self-discipline, which can serve as a form of motivation to carry on with the innovation process, through to completion stage.

At the beginning stage of every innovation, it can seem very exciting and interesting but as the project progresses and deliverables are expected to be presented for testing, it starts getting awkward and beyond expectation. This is when an Executor needs to exercise some patience, by constantly going through the execution plan to understand every line of actions in the innovation process. Self-discipline demands that an Executor stays rigorously with the execution plan and only make changes when the team must have agreed that, it is the best decision to make.

In conclusion, we've all heard about CEOs (Chief Executive Officer) or Directors of companies and the first thing that comes to mind is that they lead various companies to become successful; but when we actually look closely at the name Chief Executive Officer, it simply means that the person is Chief Executor and he/she is responsible for executing at least one of the numerous ideas that would be presented before him/her, as CEO
The same thing goes with us as Team leaders, Managers, Entrepreneurs and Individuals (i.e. The Director of your own personal life). We are also Chief Executive Officers of our different teams or any platform that we are leading, since we are responsible for executing ideas and making decisions to execute innovative ideas.
So, it is absolutely necessary that we measure our skills against these skills set out for 'CHIEF EXECUTORS'.

Now that we’ve been able to identify the skills set for an Executor and we’ve already looked at the skills of an Innovator in one of our previous articles “INNOVATOR’s DNA”, we would like you to access yourself against all these skills and verify if you’re thoroughly an Innovator or more of an Executor and if you simply fall in between both of them; we have another term for you, which will be discussed later in another article on this blog site.

Keep reading and recommending our blog site to your friends, networks and business associates.

By Temitayo Oyediran,
Director, Teesoft Limited.

(Teesoft Limited is a consulting and coaching company with expertise in project management, service management, business analysis and personal/corporate coaching.)


Monday, 3 March 2014

Ideation is Creation!!!

To get the sweetness of any food, you can verify by biting it, tasting it, chewing it, licking it, munching it, swallowing it or eating it. 
The most important part is the verification and not the process of verifying it. 

This implies that we should address issues from different dimensions, in order to identify which one of them has a better chance of being the best option. 
To find the right solution to any problem, you must endeavour to try all possible means before you resolve to the one that produce the best result.

Pauling Linus said in a quote: "The best way to have a very good idea is to have a lot of ideas" and Charles Darwin also said in the same way that "It's not the strongest of the species that survive, nor the most intelligent; but the ones that are most responsive to change."

While trying to achieve greatness, you need to try lots of things, amend lots of things, adjust some things, comply with so many things & you will end up being great. 
Do not be an island but embrace contributions from different platforms. 
Remember, Ideation is Creation. 

By Temitayo Oyediran.
(Director, Teesoft Limited.)

(Teesoft Limited is a consulting and coaching company with expertise in project management, service management, business analysis and personal/corporate coaching.)

Monday, 17 February 2014

MIND THE GAP.

The most fascinating thing about life is that we are either bridging a gap or creating a gap. There is always a GAP somewhere that someone or something must occupy and that is what I believe they call OPPORTUNITY.
In the business world, business people find a GAP or a niche and they try to fill it, so that they get paid for being one of the few people/businesses to identify a GAP in an industry/sector and they are courageous enough to fill such GAP. 
This works in almost every facet of our lives and also in animals (I'm not going to provide details on that now).

There are two very important key words in this statement "MIND THE GAP" and I'm just going to briefly explain what this really means to a visionary.
This text is commonly used at the train stations, and they are there to tell people to be careful of their movement, so that they don't trip off the rail path when trying to board a train.
In this context, we would stress more on the importance of 'MIND' and 'GAP' in the above statement.

However, it simply means that we should fill the GAP between where we are and where we're going, with our MINDs. 

Think about it, when your mind is placed where you are going or what you wish or aspire to achieve, then it becomes easier for you to think of different means and different ways of reaching that goal. 

I will like to rephrase the statement with this; 
"FILL THE GAP WITH YOUR MIND."

When analyzing a business for growth, we need to identify the present state (AS-IS state) of the company and the potential level of success they have projected for themselves in the near future (TO-BE state).

It is very necessary to understand the present state or condition of whatever you're working on before you can forecast what could happen in the next few weeks/months/years, as the result.

This is not only workable in business but it works very fine in all other areas where there is need for management and I believe that there's virtually nothing that can't be managed or that does not require management. 

As a person who wants to achieve some forms of success, it is not only necessary but mandatory that we put our minds in the gap between where we are and where we ought to be, in order that we can get to where we want to be. 

A mind that fills the gap has already created a niche and an opportunity; and this will automatically place the person ahead of the crowd and those that are following him/her.

Therefore, go ahead and put your MIND in/across the GAP, so that you can stay ahead of the competition.

By:
Temitayo Oyediran.

(Teesoft Limited is a consulting and coaching company with expertise in project management, service management, business analysis and personal/corporate coaching.)